My condolences as well, and Jan, best to you and the hubby.
Fact is though, we are all moving along with time. Jan, you and I went cruising
at near the same time. I had already lost a wife to a heart attack.
in fact, I thought our paths might cross, but on our way to the western caribbean,
we instead took a left turn and somehow ended up in Ireland (damn GPS).
We go cruising so we can try to experience something before our time is due.
Sad, but unfortunately, sooner or later, we all have to go.
Its tough on the family, but better to go in peace fast and not suffer.

Rickf