in the ICW, engine wasn't working well, we were falling behind our schedule, my then wife was ready to give it up and go back home. We were anchored off a canal in Louisiana and she was at low ebb. Then this guy came by in an outboard and stopped to talk- He was all about "wow" You guys are TRAVELLING on the boat?? GOING places?? KEWL!!
And he gave her a totally new outlook. From then on, it was the trip that counted, not the schedule. We missed the event we were aiming for by 2 days, still had a great month, and never looked back.