Surely you're equals in the kitchen, fixing the water heater, minding the family finances? If you had kids, it went "I think we should have a baby",... "I was thinking the same thing! "
right ?
Lol! I don't know any couples that are equals in skills and passions like sailing. partnerships are tricky, the diversity is what makes ours work well.
they bought a boat, worked on it together, sailed it together, moved aboard for 7 years, sailed the west coast, Mexico, had another baby,... She was in and onboard:)