We are all just a bit older and greyer

Wow a J/120 is a major change from a Valiant 32. You will have to get used to some rather different sailing characteristics

I still have the same tired old Allied 36. However, I am also in the process of rebuilding a 1936 vintage powerboat (pic above was on launch day this Fall). Gibson bought a trawler and is learning to change fuel filters. Others remain pretty much the same.